A Time for ‘Wintering’

A Time for ‘Wintering’

In Katherine May’s Wintering, “wintering” is a metaphor for the difficult, quiet, or low periods of life. The benefits of wintering, as May describes them, include: Permission to Rest Wintering gives you explicit permission to slow down. Instead of forcing...
Feeling Activated? Get Grounded

Feeling Activated? Get Grounded

The Kawartha Sexual Assault Centre (KSAC) has a wonderful resource that focuses on the importance of grounding. Grounding is a set of simple strategies to detach from emotional pain e.g. craving, anger or sadness. Distraction works by focusing outward on the external...
What to Do When You Are Activated

What to Do When You Are Activated

A moment, a change, or an experience sets off a strong reaction inside of you. Your nervous system is picking up on something it remembers as unsafe, even if nothing is actually threatening you in the present moment. Your body starts to respond before your brain...